"No matter what you do or don't do, you cannot fuck this up"
The most repeated message from my guides
I’ll never forget the first time this message came through. I remember exactly where I was on my usual walking path, where the sun was in the sky, the temperature of the air on my skin.
It was about 6 months ago when I was still recovering from corporate burnout, moderate workaholism, conditioning, etc and I was spinning on how to make my business “work”. Spinning on my branding, my message, my positioning, my offers - all of it. And when I spin, I go for a walk to clear my head and signal that I need help.
You likely know me as a business astrologer, but much of what I do is channeled. I have a team of guides which include ancestors and what I call my “ET family” - yes, as in extraterrestrial - who made direct contact with me for the first time in the summer of 2023. That’s another story for another day, but since they’ve been in my life they’re usually the first to jump in to help when I’m looking for answers.
But this time, they didn’t give me the answer I was looking for. This time, they laughed.
“Marissa,” they said playfully, “you really don’t understand, do you? Your sense of control is an illusion. You think you are creating this plan and building this business now, when in reality, you’ve already planned this with us. We’ve already mapped it out. We’ve tested and learned across lifetimes. You’re already on the path. And no matter what you do or don’t do, you cannot fuck it up.”
I smiled at first, but then (my ego) got a little frustrated. “Ok well if it’s already done, then what am I supposed to DO?!!”
“Play,” they responded.
“You volunteered to operate the vehicle that you refer to as your human body so that you could play. Experience the spectrum of human emotion. Experiment. Chase joy. Just live. And as you feel inspired to do things, do them. Without attachment to the outcome. Without worrying about whether or not it will “work” - because the things you are worried about are such small, surface level details. We cannot emphasize enough how much we, with you, have already planned this. Everything has been put in place and is operating as scheduled behind the scenes. You’re just the lucky one who gets to enjoy the ride.”
I pray that hearing this message results in a bit of an exhale for you, because whether you’ve been in contact with them or not, you also have a team orchestrating things for you behind the scenes.
This message is not just for me. It’s for all of us.
So play, because no matter what you do or don’t do, you cannot fuck it up. The only thing you’re in control of is how much you enjoy the ride.
We love you so much,
Marissa & Team xo
You have a way of conveying your voice that just gets me. It’s really powerful 🙏
Surely there was a good bit of control that I was clinging onto recently, a way I saw things playing out, tension continuing to build. I kept feeling pressure mounting within myself.
I spoke to my inner child this morning while on my yoga mat and I cried more than I have in so long. A release that I knew was needed somehow, some way, but didn’t know how it would show up. Until this morning.
Uhm, I'm crying...
I didn't know I needed to hear this, Marissa. But tears are always a good sign, and a sign that I DID need this beautiful reminder. We're so lucky honestly. The fact that we've been gifted our crazy intelligent meat suits to run around the planet in, to play, to explore, to learn -- SO. MUCH. FUN.
What a ride. So glad you're coming with me on mine. Loved this post.